Canzano: Mother's Day... and it's your turn
Tell me about your mom.
I slept in a dresser drawer of an extended-stay motel for the first few months of my life. My mom reminds me of that sometimes. Whenever I check into a hotel, I look at the dresser drawers and shake my head at the absurdity of it.
My father was a professional baseball player, playing shortstop for seven seasons in the New York Mets minor league system. Mom and Dad owned a red Volkswagen bus, and they drove it all around the footprint of his baseball career.
Mom rooted for the Greenville Mets in South Carolina. Then, the Tri-City Atoms in Kennewick, Wash. Then, her favorite team became the Durham Bulls, followed by a promotion to the Memphis Blues, Tidewater Tides, and Winnipeg Whips.
Dad made Triple-A.
He and Mom were always big leaguers to us kids.
Today’s column isn’t about my mom. It’s about yours. I wrote about mine four years ago in a column. If you want to revisit that piece, have at it. But whenever I write these heartfelt holiday columns, I’m struck by the comment section and all the stories that pour in about the personal experiences of readers.
I was at the Portland State spring football game on Saturday. I had a long-time Vikings donor stop me on the field. He said, “Keep writing those human interest stories. They’re my favorites. Anyone can write about the games.”
My beat has always been humanity. I’m a sportswriter in disguise. I love back-channeling with sources and bringing you in-depth, sourced columns that you can’t get anywhere else. I relish breaking news and the vibe of a big-game moment. But it always comes back to people. It’s probably why I created a tab on this website dedicated to the “Human Interest” genre.
It’s like Walt Whitman wrote: “Keep your face always toward the sunshine, and shadows will fall behind you.”
We need good, uplifting stories, don’t we? We need to read them, hear them, and tell them. I find, particularly these days, that I need a break from the lawsuits, the hand-wringing, and the money grab that college athletics have become.
On Father’s Day, I typically remind readers that a paid gift subscription to this publication is a fun way to bond. I remember sharing the newspaper with my Dad as a kid. But my mother is a loyal reader of this column. She’s always been there. And last Mother’s Day, I received a number of inquiries from readers who wanted to gift their mother a subscription. I love that.
Sports is glue.
It wins again.
I’ve written about my mom and lots of other moms over the years. Today, I’d love for you to write a little in the comment section about yours. Tell me what she taught you. Tell me what she gave you. Tell me about the first thing that popped into your mind when I said I was curious about your mother.
What made (or makes) your mom special? Where would you take her if you could travel anywhere in the world? What would you say to her if you had a chance to go on a walk with her today? And if it’s not your mom that you celebrate today, who played that role?
I had my turn.
My mom is a rock star. She got married, had kids, and worked hard to raise those four children. Then went to college, got a degree, and went to work as a nurse. She chose a career in the mother-baby unit of the hospital. It was a magnificent second act, and a lesson to us kids.
The canvas is yours today. I’d love for you to drop into the comment section below, tell us all about your mother. It’s her day, after all. Celebrate her. And I can’t wait to read what you write.
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My mum was put in an orphanage by HER mum after WWII (my grandma was a single mother who struggled raising a child who arrived late in her life). Mum ran away from the orphanage after grade nine, found her dad, and moved in with him. She soon met MY dad, they married, and tried to start a family. After several failed pregnancies, they decided to adopt, and that’s how they ended up with me. I was so awesome (ha), they adopted a girl 18 months later. They then became foster parents to maybe a hundred long- and short-term foster kids over their lives. Like me, mum was imperfect, but she did the best she could and she was so proud of me (as if I was her own). She never lived to see me finish my PhD or see our second daughter in this world, but I hope for a time when I can tell her (again) how grateful I was for her love.❤️💔
My Mom, RIP. One of the first women to earn a Master's Degree from Ohio State. The degree was in Social Work, and she joined a medical service in WWII and was assigned to a home for the then-referred-to, retarded women.
She found out that five of her wards were scheduled for a lobotomy. She stole a pickup truck, put the women in the back, and drove over the state line to Arizona, where lobotomies were not allowed. She always looked out for the underdogs in life.
WWII - Her 1st husband was a pilot shot down and killed on a daylight bombing raid over Germany. More members of the Air Force were shot down and killed over France and Germany than Marines were KIA in the Pacific.
Her eldest brother, a tank commander under Patton, after surviving Africa and Italy, was killed at the Battle of the Bulge. Two weeks later, her Dad died of a heart attack.
My Dad made it back from the South Pacific, they met, fell in love, and married. She ended up in a household with a husband and three boys, a tough tour of duty.
My Mom and Dad's generation? Tough as nails but not without love in their hearts.
Thank you, JC, for the opportunity to remember Mama.