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Kelly Damphousse's avatar

My mum was put in an orphanage by HER mum after WWII (my grandma was a single mother who struggled raising a child who arrived late in her life). Mum ran away from the orphanage after grade nine, found her dad, and moved in with him. She soon met MY dad, they married, and tried to start a family. After several failed pregnancies, they decided to adopt, and that’s how they ended up with me. I was so awesome (ha), they adopted a girl 18 months later. They then became foster parents to maybe a hundred long- and short-term foster kids over their lives. Like me, mum was imperfect, but she did the best she could and she was so proud of me (as if I was her own). She never lived to see me finish my PhD or see our second daughter in this world, but I hope for a time when I can tell her (again) how grateful I was for her love.❤️💔

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My Mom, RIP. One of the first women to earn a Master's Degree from Ohio State. The degree was in Social Work, and she joined a medical service in WWII and was assigned to a home for the then-referred-to, retarded women.

She found out that five of her wards were scheduled for a lobotomy. She stole a pickup truck, put the women in the back, and drove over the state line to Arizona, where lobotomies were not allowed. She always looked out for the underdogs in life.

WWII - Her 1st husband was a pilot shot down and killed on a daylight bombing raid over Germany. More members of the Air Force were shot down and killed over France and Germany than Marines were KIA in the Pacific.

Her eldest brother, a tank commander under Patton, after surviving Africa and Italy, was killed at the Battle of the Bulge. Two weeks later, her Dad died of a heart attack.

My Dad made it back from the South Pacific, they met, fell in love, and married. She ended up in a household with a husband and three boys, a tough tour of duty.

My Mom and Dad's generation? Tough as nails but not without love in their hearts.

Thank you, JC, for the opportunity to remember Mama.

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